π Once a upon a time I lived a life where I would tell myself I can learn and achieve things without someone Teaching me or telling me the the mistakes to be careful of up until I couldn't figure out how to help my child overcome some of his struggles
π I've always been someone who had a strong mindset to what I believe and it felt hard for me to seek help and navigation on some of the things I struggled with , but my child's health struggles really reversed that around for me..
It was the one place I felt vulnerable, beaten down to the floor, helpless and sad almost all the time!
πNot because my child was unwell but because I felt like I couldn't be his Savior to figure out his struggles!
πMotherhood to me has a very special meaning...and I felt like I couldn't fulfill the true meaning of what it held for me...
π He cried alot, his sleep was all over the place, he was constipated almost all the time and to top it up he became a picky eater which meant he lost weight.
π I would have a long days of feeling low, not enjoying my role as a mother and sometimes even finding hard to parent him..
π It wasn't his fault for crying a lot, not wanting to eat as much and expressing himself by means traumas of tantrums and meltdowns...
π People will tell me kids have meltdowns/tantrums and it's just a develomental thing.. so I would tell myself maybe it is a and I'm just finding it hard to be a mother ..
π So that made me feel even more sad because it still didn't answer my gut guilt questions..
π But as a Mother you know when something isn't right..
π The only difference between mothers is, one is an action taker and tries to solve the issue and one numbs herself or believes the speech of the majority of how certain behaviours are normal up until times has gone by and then become evidently "not normal"
π And I wasn't going to push back my god given instincts because "certain people" ie:doctors said it was normal!
π So I embarked upon the journey of figuring it out all alone up untill I came to realise it was kinda impossible..
π Because let's be honest..who's going to give you all the answers and solutions to your child's issues for free and give you their time everytime you needed help?
π So shortly after that I finally figured I had to do the learning, the outsourcing and investing in my sanity and my child's health
π And wholah we are here today..as Gut and psychology coach!
π And ever since I never stoppped investing in myself,my children ans most importantly my sanity!
π And I can proudly say today my child has been my greatest lesson despite the hardship & struggles I endured along the way, through him I learned that "learning is a tresure that will follow its owner I everywhere"- Chinese Proverb.
π And for this very reason this is why I do what I do!
πI want to help as many mums find the beauty in motherhood and the solution to Austism/ADHD and speech deley from my experience as well as all the credentials I've collected along the way..
